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Dr Demartini has created a number of articles, audio recordings and video insights which we have accumulated in this section for you to read, view and listen to. New material will be added regularly so please keep an eye out for new writings and insights posted for your enjoyment.



Between positively and negatively charged particles is a center point of light. Between positively and negatively charged emotions is the center point of love.


People, books and media from around the world promote ideals about what to be, do and say to be a good father. Many fathers in todays modern world compare themselves to these countless ideals of being the best father they could be and may be feeling guilty for things that they have or have not done in their family and for their children.


Dr John Demartini gives tips on How to Create the Life YOU Love


I have my mother-in-law coming to stay with me for the Christmas holidays and we simply don't get on. No matter what I do, nothing is good enough for her. She constantly criticises the way I do things, particularly when it comes to the kids. How can I improve this relationship - should I even try?


Human behaviourist Dr John Demartini offers advice on successful strategies to use to reduce the probability of divorce


A study many years ago by John Norcross, a psychology professor at the University of Scranton, proved that 77 percent of people who made New Year's Resolutions maintained their pledges for a week but by the end of the two year study that success ratio had dropped to 19 Percent.


Dr John Demartini explains how to address feelings of jealousy and envy.


The fear of public speaking is one of the greatest fears the majority of people ever face. But if you understand the actual reason for your fear and are able to work through this, you will be able to stand up and present a meaningful message and go on to pursue many more social achievements.


The biggest causes of marriage breakdowns are from idealisms and romantic notions. We are all looking for the perfect relationship, but as long as we set unrealistic ideals and project them onto potential partners, we will live in quiet desperation, feeling constantly disappointed when they do not live up to our perceived expectations.


Learn how to control the 7 primary fears that limit your potential and self belief, says world renowned human behavioural specialist Dr John Demartini.


My mother told me when I was almost four years old, as she was putting me to bed one night Son before you go to sleep tonight make sure you count your blessings Great truths are often hidden within such simple words.


Human behaviourist Dr John Demartini offers some expert advice on how to awaken great self-confidence.


Every human being has a hierarchy of values things that are important to them in their life. Whatever we perceive as most missing becomes most important to us and therefore valuable. We think about, dream about, visualise about, talk about and spend time, energy and money on the things which are highest on our values. Our life clearly demonstrates what is most important to us at any moment in time.


Whether you are single or married, working full time while managing children, or solely handling a handful of children at home, you can at times become overwhelmed by the enormous amount of responsibilities that you face as a modern woman.


It's not hard to slow down the signs of aging, both mentally and physically. Dr John Demartini shares 12 effective tips for slowing down the signs of aging.


When it's time to make a clean break, whether it's a personal or business relationship, there are certain strategies you can follow to help make the process as painless as possible. Dr. John Demartini details the best approach.


Dr. John Demartini discusses the seven areas that people and nations need to fulfill in order to succeed and avoid being over-powered by others.


When we are confident about ourselves and what we are doing with our lives, we tend to succeed in our endeavours. Dr. John Demartini offers some tips on how to live confidently.


We have all read about happily ever after and other misleading fantasies in story books. Most people continue to buy into these childhood ideas, even in adulthood. However, believing in these common myths will keep you from fully experiencing the riches that every relationship has to offer. Dr. Demartini shares 10 relationship myths.


Mothers, today, are bombarded with books and media describing an image of the perfect mother. They promote the 'right' thing to be, do and say. Many mothers compare themselves to these social ideals, judge themselves accordingly and develop the perception they are making mistakes while raising their children.


There are seven common fears and guilt that fragment our full potential. The difference between somebody who does what they love and someone who doesn't is the former has the ability to identify their fears and has a strategy to break through them.


Every event in life has two sides - a positive and a negative. Anytime we perceive only half of an emotional equation instead of loving and appreciating the whole, we become stressed physically and emotionally.


People, books and media from around the world promote ideals about what to be, do and say to be a good father. Many fathers in today's modern world compare themselves to these countless ideals of being the best father they could be and may be feeling guilty for things that they have or have not done in their family and for their children.


Domestic violence is a way of life for millions of women who feel trapped and frightened by its impact. The article that follows will challenge some old paradigms and introduce some new more responsible ones concerning this important topic.


Here is a collection of media and articles on this controversial subject which explain my true perceptions on why these incidents occur. I hope that by reading, watching or listening to these articles and interviews you will gain more understanding of this phenomena and help bring empowerment to you or those you love.


To reduce the probability of participating in the bullying-bullied dynamic it may be wise to teach children how to empower their lives, how to negotiate in others values and how to utilize the power of numbers and social influence.


Pre-conceived ideas of life after marriage can leave many mothers disappointed. These can stem back to romantic ideas they fostered in childhood otherwise known as the 'fairytale complex'.


I was asked recently whether there was an explanation why husbands or wives stray. My answer was simple: Relationships may start out romantic, but they also remain utilitarian.


Mother's Day is the one special day of the year where Mothers are showered with gifts and warm thank yous as a reminder of the contribution they make in our lives. Any Dad who forgets to say his thank you's on Mother's Day might just end up in the proverbial dog house.


Dr Demartini answers questions regarding your teen's self-esteem, school and career choices.


What to do if your relationship is going stale or even headed downhill? Dr. Demartini offers advice for couples experiencing challenges and also gives points for those on the 'Highway to Love Heaven'


While many people feel uplifted by the approaching festive season, not all of us experience the joys of the holidays in the same way. Apathy, depression and even suicidal thoughts dominate the minds of some. Dr. John Demartini attributes many of these feelings to people building up unrealistic expectations during this time.


There are relationship counselors who tell singles to seek mates with values similar to their own; and that will be the key to long-lasting love…but they are not telling the whole story.


Do we as teachers and parents have enough value on the child to take the time to link a child's classes to their values? When children don't see how the subject they are learning in class is helping them in the areas that they see important, they shut down and lose their focus.


What creates monogamy? Since this often proves to be a highly challenging aspect of marriage, it's definitely worth taking some time to understand what influences people to conform with this expectation or not.


What's really going on when you're attracted to someone? There's no doubt that sex drive is partly chemical and hormonal, but it's also psychological and energetic.


Every child can develop the gratitude attitude. There are special moments every day that a child can take to 'Count their Blessings'. Here are just a few...

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