2-Day advanced practical training for Demartini Method Facilitators in the Death Preparation Protocol to help your clients and their loved ones navigate their end days in gratitude.
Book your ticket → Because life and death is part of the perfectionIn August 2022 my stepmother, Ilze Alberts, was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer and despite doing
everything she could to extend her life, she found herself facing weeks to her death towards the end of
last year. She asked me to consult with her, using the Demartini Method, to help her prepare for her
death. She was fearful of what was to come physically. She was anxious about the prospect of leaving her
family and her dreams for her life behind.
I’ve worked with clients with many different issues over the years but this was the first time I’d been
asked to help someone prepare for their death. I will confess that I wasn’t sure that I was up for the
task. It felt like a very big request and I didn’t want to let her down or not do a thorough job. I was
fortunate that Dr Demartini outlined the protocol of how to use the Demartini Method to help someone
prepare for their death and that gave me certainty on how to proceed.
We booked a 2-hour session and I systematically worked through the Demartini Death Preparation Protocol.
One of the steps is to clear all the emotional attachments the individual has to people, places, things,
ideas, or events that they perceive to be only positive and desirable in the future. Each one of these
is like a silver thread that binds them to their desire to be here. It’s their fear of this loss that
makes them resist and fear their own death.
We worked through each one of these perceptions, her desire to be at her son’s wedding in December, her
connection to her daughter and son, her desire to be there to see her grandchildren grow up, her dream
to build a foundation, and her many plans she wanted to fulfill with her beloved husband. I helped her
to balance each of her perceptions, and as we did, it was like cutting the threads, string by string
until all her attachments were cleared.
As soon as we cleared the last ‘thread’, Ilze stopped, poised, present, grateful, and said, “I am ready
to go.”
I cannot explain what a privilege it was to have this beautiful opportunity to work with her and the
gratitude I feel to Dr Demartini for this process that can help someone facing the ultimate challenge –
their own death - get to a point where they see the perfection of their life, their passing and can face
their own death in a state of gratitude and grace.
It astounds me what the Demartini Method is able to achieve in a session. It astounds me that by just
following the steps that Dr Demartini outlined that I was able to serve my stepmother in this beautiful
way.
Dr John Demartini is the creator of the Demartini Method, a human behavior specialist, a polymath,
philosopher, international speaker and best-selling author. His work is a summation of over 264
disciplines synthesized from the greatest philosophical, economic and scientific minds.
His curriculum consists of personal development and professional training programs. His professional
training curriculum empowers coaches, therapists, consultants in the applications of his coaching
methodology the Demartini Method (including Values) giving them the step by step processes that enable
them to transform client’s challenges in hours instead of days, weeks and years.
The Demartini Institute has offices in Houston Texas USA and in Fourways South Africa as well as representatives in Australia and New Zealand. The Demartini Institute partners with hosts in the UK, France, Italy and Ireland. For more information or to host Dr Demartini contact the office in SA or USA.
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