THE DEMARTINI METHOD for coaches
The Coaching Method That Gets Results - Every Session
Learn the methodology for transforming lives, created by human behavior expert and polymath Dr John Demartini.
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Deliver Life-Changing Results for Your Clients
As a coach or practitioner, your greatest impact comes from helping clients clarify perceptions, resolve
inner conflicts, and achieve meaningful outcomes.
The Demartini Method is a structured and repeatable process, designed to give you results in every
session.
"Most significant tool for transformation"
As a psychotherapist of over 25 years, I can hands down say that the Demartini Method is the most significant tool for transformation and integration of emotional challenges there is. From the moment I first learned the Demartini Method 18 years ago, it has helped me find gratitude for my life, myself and the people in my life in ways I didn't know possible. As a result I have a strong sense of purpose and a clear vision for my life. The results for my clients have been equally profound. From anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addictions, life stressors, and traumas, the Demartini Method has allowed me to help clients dissolve the corresponding emotional baggage and propel them to new possibilities. The Demartini Method has been the game-changer for me as a psychotherapist and in my own personal journey and I am so grateful.
- lisa dion, Psychotherapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Who Benefits from Mastering the Demartini Method?
This methodology is perfect for professionals who want to elevate their results:
Life
Coaches
Coaches
Executive
Coaches
Coaches
Health & Wellness
Coaches
Coaches
Personal Trainers &
Sports Coaches
Sports Coaches
Career
Coaches
Coaches
Transformational
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HR Professionals &
Business Managers
Business Managers
Psychologists,
Therapists, Counselors
Therapists, Counselors
Teachers & Youth
Leaders
Leaders
Life
Coaches
Coaches
Personal Trainers &
Sports Coaches
Sports Coaches
HR Professionals &
Business Managers
Business Managers
Executive
Coaches
Coaches
Career
Coaches
Coaches
Psychologists,
Therapists, Counselors
Therapists, Counselors
Health & Wellness
Coaches
Coaches
Transformational
Coaches
Coaches
Teachers & Youth
Leaders
Leaders
“It has helped me assist thousands of clients”
The Demartini Method has transformed me personally, and I felt the call to adopt it and master it professionally too. Ever since, it has helped me assist thousands of clients to reach soulful, outstanding results in their lives, mostly around letting go of old personas, patterns and plateaus they defined themselves by. The power of this method is to awaken us to what we are, beyond our current definitions.
- Dacian Pascuta, Coach, trainer & authorThe Benefits for You and Your Clients
Mastering the Demartini Method helps you:
- Deliver consistent, life-changing results for your clients
- Help clients dissolve emotional charges, resolve inner conflicts, and take inspired action
- Build a strong reputation as a results-driven coach or practitioner
- Attract and retain high-quality clients
- Increase your professional confidence, fees, and referrals
- Grow a thriving practice while being inspired by the transformations you facilitate
“Words can't even really describe how valuable the Demartini Method is to me!"
Having a method that incorporates so many things and can be applied to all clients I work with plus myself is just incredible. Words can't even really describe how valuable the Demartini Method is to me!
- Morrin O'Shea, Mindset CoachWhy The Demartini Method Works
The Demartini Method works because it targets the root causes of emotional and behavioral challenges, rather than just managing symptoms. By helping clients:
Integrate perceptions
identify and reframe any distressing event or distracting emotion and develop greater self-governance
Manage expectations
dissolve judgment and see the perfection of themselves and others as they are
Connect with what truly matters
align their decisions and actions with their core values leading to greater authenticity
This structured approach empowers clients to shift perspective, dissolve emotional charges, and take inspired action, producing measurable, lasting results.
Grounded in Research
Developed by human behavior expert and polymath Dr John Demartini, the Demartini Method draws on over 50 years of research across psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, physics, theology, mathematics, and physiology. This broad, multidisciplinary foundation informs the structured methodology used by facilitators worldwide and underpins profound client breakthroughs.
Dr Demartini, the creator of the Demartini Method, is the only individual authorised globally to train and license others in the Demartini Method. The Demartini Method is copyright and any use of the material commercially without a valid license is a copyright and trademark infringement.
Lives Transformed by the Demartini Method
The most powerful qualification in my bag.
I am of more service to my clients.
One of the most profound tools for transformation.
An integral tool that I will use in my practice.
I’m so thrilled to have his new skill in my toolbox.
What a life changing event!
Allows me to do deep work with high profile clients.
This work is life changing.
Produces transformations right before your eyes.
I now see even more the transformative power of the Demartini Method.
The Path to Mastery
Transform your practice and gain certification through the Demartini Method training steps:
STEP 1
The Breakthrough Experience - 2 Days
Dr Demartini’s signature seminar where you’ll get to experience the transformative power of the Demartini Method firsthand. You can attend this seminar LIVE online or in certain cities LIVE in-person.
STEP 2
The Demartini Method Training Program - 5 Days
Be trained by Dr John Demartini in the primary applications of the Demartini Method. Upon completion you’ll be a Trained Demartini Method Facilitator and issued with a 2-year professional license enabling you to use the Demartini Method commercially in your client sessions.
STEP 3
Demartini Method Level II Training - 3 Days
This training is for graduates of the Demartini Method Training Program and designed to help you master the more advanced applications of the Demartini Method, including synthesis and synchronicity, through teaching and facilitator practice sessions.
STEP 4
Demartini Values Training Program - 4 Days
Mastering the application of values in all 7 areas of life, through teaching and facilitator practice sessions, in order to drive greater client/staff engagement, productivity, autonomy, mission, and purpose. You’ll receive a license to use the Demartini Values Methodologies commercially for the duration of 2 years.
STEP 5
Demartini Method Level III Training - 2 Days
Only for graduates of the Demartini Method Training as well as the Demartini Values Training Program. Specialized training for overcoming repetitive client patterns and refining mastery.
Case Studies: Real Transformations
The Demartini Method can help clients overcome deeply entrenched emotional and behavioral challenges, producing measurable, lasting results.
Client:
Facilitated by: Lauren P.
Lisa Dion - Therapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Lauren P.
Lisa Dion - Therapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Dissociative symptoms
Background:
Lauren P., a 16-year-old female, presented with beliefs that she possessed psychic abilities to predict deaths and save people from pain. She claimed to be able to feel the pain of individuals dying, but also predict their deaths in order to intervene to save them. Lauren also experienced dissociation specifically when discussing her father. She had a history of missing school due to severe migraines supposedly triggered by her visions.
Action Taken:
Upon initial consultation, a 5 hour session was conducted to delve into Lauren's experiences and perceptions. It became evident that her supposed psychic abilities were linked to perceived traumatic memories and perceptions about her father. Lauren perceived her father as a violent figure, prompting her to seek refuge in the bathroom where she developed a fantasy of communicating with a maternal, empowering figure she referred to as "the Moon." During the consultation, the Demartini Method was used to process some of Lauren's fears related to her father and her fantasies about how her life and his actions should have been different.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Lauren see the order in the moment she perceived as most terrifying that led her to hide in the bathroom. In that specific moment Lauren came to realize that she dissociated from the perceived pain of her father's violence and her mind created a counterbalanced perception that included the Moon granting her psychic abilities that helped her feel powerful. Upon seeing the wisdom in her own mind, Lauren's dissociated fantasy dissolved.
Outcome:
Following the initial session, Lauren experienced a cessation of her migraines and was able to attend school regularly. She progressed further by participating in a Breakthrough Experience, where she continued to work through and collapse more of her negative perceptions of her father. Lauren continued to participate in consultations until she was complete.
Conclusion:
Lauren's case highlights the complex interplay between perceived psychological trauma, dissociative symptoms, and belief systems that can manifest in psychosis. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve the perceived challenges that led to her mind dissociating, Lauren was able to eliminate all of her symptoms of psychosis and return to a normal teenage life.
Dissociative symptoms
Background:
Lauren P., a 16-year-old female, presented with beliefs that she possessed psychic abilities to predict deaths and save people from pain. She claimed to be able to feel the pain of individuals dying, but also predict their deaths in order to intervene to save them. Lauren also experienced dissociation specifically when discussing her father. She had a history of missing school due to severe migraines supposedly triggered by her visions.
Action Taken:
Upon initial consultation, a 5 hour session was conducted to delve into Lauren's experiences and perceptions. It became evident that her supposed psychic abilities were linked to perceived traumatic memories and perceptions about her father. Lauren perceived her father as a violent figure, prompting her to seek refuge in the bathroom where she developed a fantasy of communicating with a maternal, empowering figure she referred to as "the Moon." During the consultation, the Demartini Method was used to process some of Lauren's fears related to her father and her fantasies about how her life and his actions should have been different.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Lauren see the order in the moment she perceived as most terrifying that led her to hide in the bathroom. In that specific moment Lauren came to realize that she dissociated from the perceived pain of her father's violence and her mind created a counterbalanced perception that included the Moon granting her psychic abilities that helped her feel powerful. Upon seeing the wisdom in her own mind, Lauren's dissociated fantasy dissolved.
Outcome:
Following the initial session, Lauren experienced a cessation of her migraines and was able to attend school regularly. She progressed further by participating in a Breakthrough Experience, where she continued to work through and collapse more of her negative perceptions of her father. Lauren continued to participate in consultations until she was complete.
Conclusion:
Lauren's case highlights the complex interplay between perceived psychological trauma, dissociative symptoms, and belief systems that can manifest in psychosis. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve the perceived challenges that led to her mind dissociating, Lauren was able to eliminate all of her symptoms of psychosis and return to a normal teenage life.
Client:
Facilitated by: Ilze. A
Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Ilze. A
Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Facing death from terminal cancer
Background:
Ilze was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer in 2022 and had exhausted all possible treatment pathways. She’d been advised by her oncologist that there was nothing more that they could medically do and that her hospice care team would now focus on pain management until she passed, which was estimated to be no more than 2 months away. Ilze booked a consultation to assist her to process her emotions around her passing.
Action Taken:
A 2 hour session was conducted to assist Ilze process her anxiety around dying. She was fearful of what the physical experience would be while dying, from experiencing pain, nausea and losing her physical strength and dignity. She was also fearful of leaving her children, grandchildren and husband behind. She also had a number of projects that she wanted to be able to complete in the future.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Death Preparation Protocol was used to process Ilze’s fears relating to each itemized physical challenge she was concerned she might experience in the coming weeks. She found the equal benefits of each experience until she no longer felt anxiety at the thought of experiencing it.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Ilze see the downside of all the future positive attachments that were binding for her. She saw the drawbacks of building the foundation she perceived she wanted to build, the downside of being at her son’s wedding and the benefits to her family if she passed before the wedding, she saw the downside of participating in all the relationships that were meaningful for her and the benefits to all the people she loved of her passing.
Ilze balanced out all her perceptions to her future attachments, cleared all her fears in relation to the potential physical experiences she might face and upon seeing the order, she declared that she was ready to pass.
Outcome:
Following the session, Ilze reported that she felt an inner peace about her pending death and that the fears she’d felt were no longer dominating her thoughts. That she was able to spend time with her family appreciating the time she had left.
Conclusion:
Ilze’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform anxiety and fear when facing death. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her anxiety and fear, Ilze was able to clear her emotions and return her mindset to gratitude.
Facing death from terminal cancer
Background:
Ilze was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer in 2022 and had exhausted all possible treatment pathways. She’d been advised by her oncologist that there was nothing more that they could medically do and that her hospice care team would now focus on pain management until she passed, which was estimated to be no more than 2 months away. Ilze booked a consultation to assist her to process her emotions around her passing.
Action Taken:
A 2 hour session was conducted to assist Ilze process her anxiety around dying. She was fearful of what the physical experience would be while dying, from experiencing pain, nausea and losing her physical strength and dignity. She was also fearful of leaving her children, grandchildren and husband behind. She also had a number of projects that she wanted to be able to complete in the future.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Death Preparation Protocol was used to process Ilze’s fears relating to each itemized physical challenge she was concerned she might experience in the coming weeks. She found the equal benefits of each experience until she no longer felt anxiety at the thought of experiencing it.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Ilze see the downside of all the future positive attachments that were binding for her. She saw the drawbacks of building the foundation she perceived she wanted to build, the downside of being at her son’s wedding and the benefits to her family if she passed before the wedding, she saw the downside of participating in all the relationships that were meaningful for her and the benefits to all the people she loved of her passing.
Ilze balanced out all her perceptions to her future attachments, cleared all her fears in relation to the potential physical experiences she might face and upon seeing the order, she declared that she was ready to pass.
Outcome:
Following the session, Ilze reported that she felt an inner peace about her pending death and that the fears she’d felt were no longer dominating her thoughts. That she was able to spend time with her family appreciating the time she had left.
Conclusion:
Ilze’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform anxiety and fear when facing death. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her anxiety and fear, Ilze was able to clear her emotions and return her mindset to gratitude.
Client:
Facilitated by: Charne P.
Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Charne P.
Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Clearing Loss
Background:
Charne, a 37 year old woman, had lost her mother to cancer 1 month prior. She was very close to her mother and her passing left her feeling in her words ‘debilitated by her loss’. She had her own business, 2 kids and a husband and found herself struggling to juggle the demands of her life while feeling overwhelmed with her loss. Charne booked a consultation to assist her to clear her emotions around her mother’s passing.
Action Taken:
A 3-hour session was conducted to assist Charne process her loss. She identified 13 aspects of her mother that she perceived that she missed. We listed them in priority order from what she missed most to least.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Loss Protocol was used to work through her perceptions and to clear each of the 13 aspects she’d listed at the start of the session.
We started with the highest priority trait and found the new forms of what she perceived she was missing. She was then asked to find the drawbacks of each of the moments she perceived her mother displaying the trait until she could see that there were just as many drawbacks to the behavior as what she initially perceived there to be benefits. She was then asked to find the benefits of all the new forms of the trait which she did. As soon as the mathematical equation of her perception was balanced across the 3 questions in relation to the trait, she confirmed that she no longer missed that specific trait in her mother.
She then followed the same steps for each of the 13 traits that she’d listed. At the end of balancing her perceptions for each trait she confirmed again that she no longer missed that trait.
At the end of the 13 traits, once all her perceptions were balanced, all perceptions of loss were dissolved. She had a profound moment of presence and gratitude for both her mother’s life and her passing and could see the perfection of both.
Outcome:
Following the session, Charne reported that her perceptions of loss were cleared and 3 months after the session she reported that she was amazed that she was able to function without feeling any perceived loss from that day forward. She also said she had a friend whose father had died a year earlier that was still struggling with loss and that she was so grateful that she was not in that emotional space. Being freed up from her feelings of loss enabled her to be present as a mother and wife and to focus on her business again.
Conclusion:
Charne’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform perceived loss. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her perceptions of loss, Charne was able to clear her perceived loss and find meaning in her mother’s passing.
Clearing Loss
Background:
Charne, a 37 year old woman, had lost her mother to cancer 1 month prior. She was very close to her mother and her passing left her feeling in her words ‘debilitated by her loss’. She had her own business, 2 kids and a husband and found herself struggling to juggle the demands of her life while feeling overwhelmed with her loss. Charne booked a consultation to assist her to clear her emotions around her mother’s passing.
Action Taken:
A 3-hour session was conducted to assist Charne process her loss. She identified 13 aspects of her mother that she perceived that she missed. We listed them in priority order from what she missed most to least.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Loss Protocol was used to work through her perceptions and to clear each of the 13 aspects she’d listed at the start of the session.
We started with the highest priority trait and found the new forms of what she perceived she was missing. She was then asked to find the drawbacks of each of the moments she perceived her mother displaying the trait until she could see that there were just as many drawbacks to the behavior as what she initially perceived there to be benefits. She was then asked to find the benefits of all the new forms of the trait which she did. As soon as the mathematical equation of her perception was balanced across the 3 questions in relation to the trait, she confirmed that she no longer missed that specific trait in her mother.
She then followed the same steps for each of the 13 traits that she’d listed. At the end of balancing her perceptions for each trait she confirmed again that she no longer missed that trait.
At the end of the 13 traits, once all her perceptions were balanced, all perceptions of loss were dissolved. She had a profound moment of presence and gratitude for both her mother’s life and her passing and could see the perfection of both.
Outcome:
Following the session, Charne reported that her perceptions of loss were cleared and 3 months after the session she reported that she was amazed that she was able to function without feeling any perceived loss from that day forward. She also said she had a friend whose father had died a year earlier that was still struggling with loss and that she was so grateful that she was not in that emotional space. Being freed up from her feelings of loss enabled her to be present as a mother and wife and to focus on her business again.
Conclusion:
Charne’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform perceived loss. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her perceptions of loss, Charne was able to clear her perceived loss and find meaning in her mother’s passing.
Client:
Facilitated by: Constantin
Dacian Pascuta - Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Constantin
Dacian Pascuta - Demartini Method Facilitator
Background:
The client is a 36-year-old entrepreneur who became aware of a fear of being around certain potential clients and collaborators. He realized this issue was limiting his business growth and wanted to explore it further.
Action Taken:
We first identified the despised traits in these clients and found specific past experiences with the same perception. The earliest experience seemed to be from secondary school when a boy, A., repeatedly threatened to beat him and pushed him a few times. He was growing up with his grandparents, and when his grandmother saw his emotional state and found out about A., she assured her grandson she would protect him. She went to school, and from that day on, the threats stopped.
Over time, A. was reflected in his clients and collaborators, while his grandmother was reflected in several women he placed his hopes in. One of them was an employee he was advised not to hire, but due to his blind spot, he did, and that led to major problems within the company.
So our goal became to balance two perceptions around that original event using the Demartini Method. On one hand, we aimed to dissolve the resentment and fear linked to A.’s behavior. On the other hand, we aimed to dissolve the admiration and attachment around his grandmother, who solved the challenge for him. We were done in about one hour. We checked and saw there was no fear left in the present context of his business.
Outcome:
The next morning he sent me this message: “You would not believe me if I told you who just gave me a call.” It was A., some 23 years after that moment, while in the meantime they hadn’t known anything about each other. A. discovered my client’s company online, saw his name, and called him to ask if he could become his client!
Constantin asked me how this was even possible, and I remember telling him: “You cannot serve those you don’t love. Clients like A. couldn’t come to you as long as you feared them. By dissolving that fear, you declared you were ready to serve. Life just gave you that proof, almost instantly.” Those stories were entangled, but now, by dissolving the charge, he closed the loop, freeing himself for new levels of accomplishment.
Conclusion:
There are amazing underlying links in our present challenges. Until those links are made conscious and dissolved, they feed a pattern we don’t understand or can’t seem to break. Using the Demartini Method, we can discover such links and balance the perceptions that feed those patterns.
The client is a 36-year-old entrepreneur who became aware of a fear of being around certain potential clients and collaborators. He realized this issue was limiting his business growth and wanted to explore it further.
Action Taken:
We first identified the despised traits in these clients and found specific past experiences with the same perception. The earliest experience seemed to be from secondary school when a boy, A., repeatedly threatened to beat him and pushed him a few times. He was growing up with his grandparents, and when his grandmother saw his emotional state and found out about A., she assured her grandson she would protect him. She went to school, and from that day on, the threats stopped.
Over time, A. was reflected in his clients and collaborators, while his grandmother was reflected in several women he placed his hopes in. One of them was an employee he was advised not to hire, but due to his blind spot, he did, and that led to major problems within the company.
So our goal became to balance two perceptions around that original event using the Demartini Method. On one hand, we aimed to dissolve the resentment and fear linked to A.’s behavior. On the other hand, we aimed to dissolve the admiration and attachment around his grandmother, who solved the challenge for him. We were done in about one hour. We checked and saw there was no fear left in the present context of his business.
Outcome:
The next morning he sent me this message: “You would not believe me if I told you who just gave me a call.” It was A., some 23 years after that moment, while in the meantime they hadn’t known anything about each other. A. discovered my client’s company online, saw his name, and called him to ask if he could become his client!
Constantin asked me how this was even possible, and I remember telling him: “You cannot serve those you don’t love. Clients like A. couldn’t come to you as long as you feared them. By dissolving that fear, you declared you were ready to serve. Life just gave you that proof, almost instantly.” Those stories were entangled, but now, by dissolving the charge, he closed the loop, freeing himself for new levels of accomplishment.
Conclusion:
There are amazing underlying links in our present challenges. Until those links are made conscious and dissolved, they feed a pattern we don’t understand or can’t seem to break. Using the Demartini Method, we can discover such links and balance the perceptions that feed those patterns.
Client:
Facilitated by: Tanya and Eric. Age: 40s
Lisa Dion - Therapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Tanya and Eric. Age: 40s
Lisa Dion - Therapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Background:
Tanya and Eric have been married for 17 years and Tanya is having an affair with a much younger man.
Eric feels betrayed and Tanya feels “she had no choice”- that she was driven to be with someone else because Eric's "laziness" and "lack of motivation" were draining her.
Action Taken:
Two consultation sessions were scheduled to help Tanya and Eric resolve the dynamics that were contributing to their challenges.
The first consultation began with an introduction to the Demartini Value Determination Process to help them understand what is most important to them and to highlight the relational dynamics that occur when they don't communicate in each other's values.
After understanding each other's values, they both were able to recognize that they were expecting the other to live according to their values and not honoring each other for who they are.
The second consultation, which was 4 hours in length, involved taking Tanya and Eric through the Demartini Method to further help dissolve the resentment that they were both having towards each other. They both were able to own where they had done the very thing they were judging in the other and were very humbled to see how each other was reflecting what they were disowning with themselves.
Outcome:
Tanya and Eric developed a new appreciation for each other and how they were helping each other grow. They also understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward.
Eric also realized that he wanted out of the marriage, but did not know how to get out and this affair was a blessing in disguise.
Conclusion
Following these two consultations, additional consultations occurred to support them in collapsing the fears that were in the way of moving forward with a divorce. They both also had individual sessions.
Tanya's sessions focused on collapsing the fantasy she had of "her new partner" so that she could make a decision about whether or not that relationship was truly congruent for her.
Eric's sessions focused on helping him collapse his shame for "not going for it" in life and also discover what he would really love to dedicate his time to now that he understood his values. In the end, they did divorce but not out of resentment but deep appreciation for each other and an understanding that they both simply wanted something different.
Tanya and Eric have been married for 17 years and Tanya is having an affair with a much younger man.
Eric feels betrayed and Tanya feels “she had no choice”- that she was driven to be with someone else because Eric's "laziness" and "lack of motivation" were draining her.
Action Taken:
Two consultation sessions were scheduled to help Tanya and Eric resolve the dynamics that were contributing to their challenges.
The first consultation began with an introduction to the Demartini Value Determination Process to help them understand what is most important to them and to highlight the relational dynamics that occur when they don't communicate in each other's values.
After understanding each other's values, they both were able to recognize that they were expecting the other to live according to their values and not honoring each other for who they are.
The second consultation, which was 4 hours in length, involved taking Tanya and Eric through the Demartini Method to further help dissolve the resentment that they were both having towards each other. They both were able to own where they had done the very thing they were judging in the other and were very humbled to see how each other was reflecting what they were disowning with themselves.
Outcome:
Tanya and Eric developed a new appreciation for each other and how they were helping each other grow. They also understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward.
Eric also realized that he wanted out of the marriage, but did not know how to get out and this affair was a blessing in disguise.
Conclusion
Following these two consultations, additional consultations occurred to support them in collapsing the fears that were in the way of moving forward with a divorce. They both also had individual sessions.
Tanya's sessions focused on collapsing the fantasy she had of "her new partner" so that she could make a decision about whether or not that relationship was truly congruent for her.
Eric's sessions focused on helping him collapse his shame for "not going for it" in life and also discover what he would really love to dedicate his time to now that he understood his values. In the end, they did divorce but not out of resentment but deep appreciation for each other and an understanding that they both simply wanted something different.
Client:
Facilitated by: Sarah M.
Carly Pepin - Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Sarah M.
Carly Pepin - Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Business Plateau
Background:
The client was struggling to overcome a business and financial plateau. Despite having some ideas on how to move forward, she was procrastinating due to significant brain noise and mental fog, which fueled a lack of belief in what was possible and certainty in her capabilities. She also carried significant guilt from a past trauma, believing that because of this, she “shouldn’t be happy, I don’t deserve it.” This inner turmoil was causing conflicts in her relationship and leading to time away from her children, which further amplified her guilt and shame for feeling like a "bad" mother.
Action Taken:
Following this, we engaged in 12 one-on-one consultations focused on using the Demartini Method to process the past trauma where she perceived herself as responsible for a family member’s passing.
We also worked on helping her create certainty in the traits of business figures she admired, creating the certainty that she had what it took to move forward. Additionally, we used the Demartini Method to stabilize the conflicts in her relationship and helped her see the perfection of her role as a mother and wife, dissolving the guilt and shame over her perceived shortcomings and allowing her to embrace the mother she was meant to be.
We also used the Demartini Method to address her relationship with her father, who had been a failed entrepreneur. This experience helped her release a significant amount of guilt and shame related to her perceived lack of performance and shifted her fears and fantasies around failure in her business.
After the initial program, we continued with weekly sessions using the Demartini Method to address the ongoing stresses that arose as she scaled her business. Each session focused on overcoming misperceptions driving mental noise, allowing her to develop clear strategies and systems for business growth. In addition focusing on any fantasies or nightmares that came up for her so she could move forward more objectively.
Outcome:
Once she cleared the guilt and shame associated with her perceived responsibility for the family member’s death, her procrastination dissolved, and she began building and growing immediately. The reduction in household turmoil allowed her to focus on business tasks without risking her family’s well-being.
The ongoing use of the Demartini Method helped her access her own objective center, develop clear strategies and solutions, and set long-term goals. In the 6 years we have been working together this program utilizing the Demartini Method enabled her to grow her business from $8M to $58M annually, with continued expansion and a goal to sell at the 500M mark.
As she continued to dissolve subordinations to external influences, her vision expanded with each session and she continues to see strategies and solutions to move forward.
Conclusion:
This case shows the potential and versatility of the Demartini Method in removing misperceptions, guilt, shame, and pride that block our objectivity and certainty. By dissolving these barriers, the client was able to move past her roadblocks and focus on an authentic life that inspired her, ultimately achieving financial freedom for herself and her family.
Business Plateau
Background:
The client was struggling to overcome a business and financial plateau. Despite having some ideas on how to move forward, she was procrastinating due to significant brain noise and mental fog, which fueled a lack of belief in what was possible and certainty in her capabilities. She also carried significant guilt from a past trauma, believing that because of this, she “shouldn’t be happy, I don’t deserve it.” This inner turmoil was causing conflicts in her relationship and leading to time away from her children, which further amplified her guilt and shame for feeling like a "bad" mother.
Action Taken:
Following this, we engaged in 12 one-on-one consultations focused on using the Demartini Method to process the past trauma where she perceived herself as responsible for a family member’s passing.
We also worked on helping her create certainty in the traits of business figures she admired, creating the certainty that she had what it took to move forward. Additionally, we used the Demartini Method to stabilize the conflicts in her relationship and helped her see the perfection of her role as a mother and wife, dissolving the guilt and shame over her perceived shortcomings and allowing her to embrace the mother she was meant to be.
We also used the Demartini Method to address her relationship with her father, who had been a failed entrepreneur. This experience helped her release a significant amount of guilt and shame related to her perceived lack of performance and shifted her fears and fantasies around failure in her business.
After the initial program, we continued with weekly sessions using the Demartini Method to address the ongoing stresses that arose as she scaled her business. Each session focused on overcoming misperceptions driving mental noise, allowing her to develop clear strategies and systems for business growth. In addition focusing on any fantasies or nightmares that came up for her so she could move forward more objectively.
Outcome:
Once she cleared the guilt and shame associated with her perceived responsibility for the family member’s death, her procrastination dissolved, and she began building and growing immediately. The reduction in household turmoil allowed her to focus on business tasks without risking her family’s well-being.
The ongoing use of the Demartini Method helped her access her own objective center, develop clear strategies and solutions, and set long-term goals. In the 6 years we have been working together this program utilizing the Demartini Method enabled her to grow her business from $8M to $58M annually, with continued expansion and a goal to sell at the 500M mark.
As she continued to dissolve subordinations to external influences, her vision expanded with each session and she continues to see strategies and solutions to move forward.
Conclusion:
This case shows the potential and versatility of the Demartini Method in removing misperceptions, guilt, shame, and pride that block our objectivity and certainty. By dissolving these barriers, the client was able to move past her roadblocks and focus on an authentic life that inspired her, ultimately achieving financial freedom for herself and her family.
Client:
Facilitated by: Barbara & Brad, Age 30s
Ken Pierce - Psychologist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Facilitated by: Barbara & Brad, Age 30s
Ken Pierce - Psychologist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Infidelity, Betrayal and Abandonment
Background:
Barbara and Brad had been married three years and had a one-year-old child. Barbara initiated the session when she found out Brad was having an affair with a colleague in the military where they were both employed.
Barbara was angry and ready to divorce Brad. She reported that she “felt betrayed” and perceived he was abandoning their marriage and being disloyal to her while she was home on maternity leave with their firstborn child. But Brad had been feeling abandoned and neglected for some time by Barbara and was now guilting himself about being unfaithful and disloyal to her by how he had coped with it.
Action Taken:
The initial session clarified the details from each of their perspectives and established they were still both committed to their relationship if they could resolve this current challenge. It included collecting their personal histories and significant past traumas and cumulated with an introduction to the Demartini Method and how it is used as a therapeutic approach based on a values perspective in couple communication. Before the next weekly session, both Barbara and Brad were asked to identify and forward copies of their personal highest values after completing the online tool and their life goals.
In the next session, after seeing each other’s values and life goals they were reminded of why they had got married. In subsequent consultations, Barbara realized they each had their own forms of infidelity, betrayal and abandonment. She realized her forms were perceived to be equally challenging by Brad as his were to her. When Brad realized Barbara’s focus on their pregnancy and their child was due to her value of being the first of her several siblings to have a healthy child, his awareness also shifted dramatically of her values.
Both Barbara and Brad were able to recognize they were each expecting the other to live according to their partner’s values. And they were each not honouring and respecting each other for who they are and the values they have created from their past to live their life. When they each could see they had been having different forms of affairs, Brad with his colleague and Barbara with her pregnancy and baby, they evolved a new level of awareness of themselves and each other and their similarities and differences. Their communication shifted immediately as a result. In the tenth and final consultation, both Barbara and Brad were recommitted to their future together.
Outcome:
Barbara and Brad developed a new appreciation and commitment to themselves and each other…and their baby. They understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward. And, they noted the collegial affair had been a useful, two-sided event that served them well.
Conclusion:
Barbara and Brad arrived angry, confused and laden with guilt because they perceived the other was to blame for their situation. They left realizing their partner and child were learning tools to assist each of them to grow in appreciation for themselves, each other and their new baby.
Infidelity, Betrayal and Abandonment
Background:
Barbara and Brad had been married three years and had a one-year-old child. Barbara initiated the session when she found out Brad was having an affair with a colleague in the military where they were both employed.
Barbara was angry and ready to divorce Brad. She reported that she “felt betrayed” and perceived he was abandoning their marriage and being disloyal to her while she was home on maternity leave with their firstborn child. But Brad had been feeling abandoned and neglected for some time by Barbara and was now guilting himself about being unfaithful and disloyal to her by how he had coped with it.
Action Taken:
The initial session clarified the details from each of their perspectives and established they were still both committed to their relationship if they could resolve this current challenge. It included collecting their personal histories and significant past traumas and cumulated with an introduction to the Demartini Method and how it is used as a therapeutic approach based on a values perspective in couple communication. Before the next weekly session, both Barbara and Brad were asked to identify and forward copies of their personal highest values after completing the online tool and their life goals.
In the next session, after seeing each other’s values and life goals they were reminded of why they had got married. In subsequent consultations, Barbara realized they each had their own forms of infidelity, betrayal and abandonment. She realized her forms were perceived to be equally challenging by Brad as his were to her. When Brad realized Barbara’s focus on their pregnancy and their child was due to her value of being the first of her several siblings to have a healthy child, his awareness also shifted dramatically of her values.
Both Barbara and Brad were able to recognize they were each expecting the other to live according to their partner’s values. And they were each not honouring and respecting each other for who they are and the values they have created from their past to live their life. When they each could see they had been having different forms of affairs, Brad with his colleague and Barbara with her pregnancy and baby, they evolved a new level of awareness of themselves and each other and their similarities and differences. Their communication shifted immediately as a result. In the tenth and final consultation, both Barbara and Brad were recommitted to their future together.
Outcome:
Barbara and Brad developed a new appreciation and commitment to themselves and each other…and their baby. They understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward. And, they noted the collegial affair had been a useful, two-sided event that served them well.
Conclusion:
Barbara and Brad arrived angry, confused and laden with guilt because they perceived the other was to blame for their situation. They left realizing their partner and child were learning tools to assist each of them to grow in appreciation for themselves, each other and their new baby.
Challenge:
Preparing for Death
Preparing for Death
Client: Ilze. A
Facilitated by: Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Facing death from terminal cancer
Background:
Ilze was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer in 2022 and had exhausted all possible treatment pathways. She’d been advised by her oncologist that there was nothing more that they could medically do and that her hospice care team would now focus on pain management until she passed, which was estimated to be no more than 2 months away. Ilze booked a consultation to assist her to process her emotions around her passing.
Action Taken:
A 2 hour session was conducted to assist Ilze process her anxiety around dying. She was fearful of what the physical experience would be while dying, from experiencing pain, nausea and losing her physical strength and dignity. She was also fearful of leaving her children, grandchildren and husband behind. She also had a number of projects that she wanted to be able to complete in the future.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Death Preparation Protocol was used to process Ilze’s fears relating to each itemized physical challenge she was concerned she might experience in the coming weeks. She found the equal benefits of each experience until she no longer felt anxiety at the thought of experiencing it.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Ilze see the downside of all the future positive attachments that were binding for her. She saw the drawbacks of building the foundation she perceived she wanted to build, the downside of being at her son’s wedding and the benefits to her family if she passed before the wedding, she saw the downside of participating in all the relationships that were meaningful for her and the benefits to all the people she loved of her passing.
Ilze balanced out all her perceptions to her future attachments, cleared all her fears in relation to the potential physical experiences she might face and upon seeing the order, she declared that she was ready to pass.
Outcome:
Following the session, Ilze reported that she felt an inner peace about her pending death and that the fears she’d felt were no longer dominating her thoughts. That she was able to spend time with her family appreciating the time she had left.
Conclusion:
Ilze’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform anxiety and fear when facing death. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her anxiety and fear, Ilze was able to clear her emotions and return her mindset to gratitude.s
Facing death from terminal cancer
Background:
Ilze was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer in 2022 and had exhausted all possible treatment pathways. She’d been advised by her oncologist that there was nothing more that they could medically do and that her hospice care team would now focus on pain management until she passed, which was estimated to be no more than 2 months away. Ilze booked a consultation to assist her to process her emotions around her passing.
Action Taken:
A 2 hour session was conducted to assist Ilze process her anxiety around dying. She was fearful of what the physical experience would be while dying, from experiencing pain, nausea and losing her physical strength and dignity. She was also fearful of leaving her children, grandchildren and husband behind. She also had a number of projects that she wanted to be able to complete in the future.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Death Preparation Protocol was used to process Ilze’s fears relating to each itemized physical challenge she was concerned she might experience in the coming weeks. She found the equal benefits of each experience until she no longer felt anxiety at the thought of experiencing it.
The Demartini Method was also used to help Ilze see the downside of all the future positive attachments that were binding for her. She saw the drawbacks of building the foundation she perceived she wanted to build, the downside of being at her son’s wedding and the benefits to her family if she passed before the wedding, she saw the downside of participating in all the relationships that were meaningful for her and the benefits to all the people she loved of her passing.
Ilze balanced out all her perceptions to her future attachments, cleared all her fears in relation to the potential physical experiences she might face and upon seeing the order, she declared that she was ready to pass.
Outcome:
Following the session, Ilze reported that she felt an inner peace about her pending death and that the fears she’d felt were no longer dominating her thoughts. That she was able to spend time with her family appreciating the time she had left.
Conclusion:
Ilze’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform anxiety and fear when facing death. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her anxiety and fear, Ilze was able to clear her emotions and return her mindset to gratitude.s
Challenge:
Clearing Loss
Clearing Loss
Client: Charne P.
Facilitated by: Clarissa Judd - Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Clearing Loss
Background:
Charne, a 37 year old woman, had lost her mother to cancer 1 month prior. She was very close to her mother and her passing left her feeling in her words ‘debilitated by her loss’. She had her own business, 2 kids and a husband and found herself struggling to juggle the demands of her life while feeling overwhelmed with her loss. Charne booked a consultation to assist her to clear her emotions around her mother’s passing.
Action Taken:
A 3-hour session was conducted to assist Charne process her loss. She identified 13 aspects of her mother that she perceived that she missed. We listed them in priority order from what she missed most to least.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Loss Protocol was used to work through her perceptions and to clear each of the 13 aspects she’d listed at the start of the session.
We started with the highest priority trait and found the new forms of what she perceived she was missing. She was then asked to find the drawbacks of each of the moments she perceived her mother displaying the trait until she could see that there were just as many drawbacks to the behavior as what she initially perceived there to be benefits. She was then asked to find the benefits of all the new forms of the trait which she did. As soon as the mathematical equation of her perception was balanced across the 3 questions in relation to the trait, she confirmed that she no longer missed that specific trait in her mother.
She then followed the same steps for each of the 13 traits that she’d listed. At the end of balancing her perceptions for each trait she confirmed again that she no longer missed that trait.
At the end of the 13 traits, once all her perceptions were balanced, all perceptions of loss were dissolved. She had a profound moment of presence and gratitude for both her mother’s life and her passing and could see the perfection of both.
Outcome:
Following the session, Charne reported that her perceptions of loss were cleared and 3 months after the session she reported that she was amazed that she was able to function without feeling any perceived loss from that day forward. She also said she had a friend whose father had died a year earlier that was still struggling with loss and that she was so grateful that she was not in that emotional space. Being freed up from her feelings of loss enabled her to be present as a mother and wife and to focus on her business again.
Conclusion:
Charne’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform perceived loss. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her perceptions of loss, Charne was able to clear her perceived loss and find meaning in her mother’s passing.
Clearing Loss
Background:
Charne, a 37 year old woman, had lost her mother to cancer 1 month prior. She was very close to her mother and her passing left her feeling in her words ‘debilitated by her loss’. She had her own business, 2 kids and a husband and found herself struggling to juggle the demands of her life while feeling overwhelmed with her loss. Charne booked a consultation to assist her to clear her emotions around her mother’s passing.
Action Taken:
A 3-hour session was conducted to assist Charne process her loss. She identified 13 aspects of her mother that she perceived that she missed. We listed them in priority order from what she missed most to least.
During the consultation, the Demartini Method’s Loss Protocol was used to work through her perceptions and to clear each of the 13 aspects she’d listed at the start of the session.
We started with the highest priority trait and found the new forms of what she perceived she was missing. She was then asked to find the drawbacks of each of the moments she perceived her mother displaying the trait until she could see that there were just as many drawbacks to the behavior as what she initially perceived there to be benefits. She was then asked to find the benefits of all the new forms of the trait which she did. As soon as the mathematical equation of her perception was balanced across the 3 questions in relation to the trait, she confirmed that she no longer missed that specific trait in her mother.
She then followed the same steps for each of the 13 traits that she’d listed. At the end of balancing her perceptions for each trait she confirmed again that she no longer missed that trait.
At the end of the 13 traits, once all her perceptions were balanced, all perceptions of loss were dissolved. She had a profound moment of presence and gratitude for both her mother’s life and her passing and could see the perfection of both.
Outcome:
Following the session, Charne reported that her perceptions of loss were cleared and 3 months after the session she reported that she was amazed that she was able to function without feeling any perceived loss from that day forward. She also said she had a friend whose father had died a year earlier that was still struggling with loss and that she was so grateful that she was not in that emotional space. Being freed up from her feelings of loss enabled her to be present as a mother and wife and to focus on her business again.
Conclusion:
Charne’s case highlights the power of balancing the mathematical equation of perception to transform perceived loss. By using the Demartini Method to dissolve her perceptions of loss, Charne was able to clear her perceived loss and find meaning in her mother’s passing.
Challenge:
Fear of Bullies
Fear of Bullies
Client: Constantin
Facilitated by: Dacian Pascuta - Demartini Method Facilitator
Background:
The client is a 36-year-old entrepreneur who became aware of a fear of being around certain potential clients and collaborators. He realized this issue was limiting his business growth and wanted to explore it further.
Action Taken:
We first identified the despised traits in these clients and found specific past experiences with the same perception. The earliest experience seemed to be from secondary school when a boy, A., repeatedly threatened to beat him and pushed him a few times. He was growing up with his grandparents, and when his grandmother saw his emotional state and found out about A., she assured her grandson she would protect him. She went to school, and from that day on, the threats stopped.
Over time, A. was reflected in his clients and collaborators, while his grandmother was reflected in several women he placed his hopes in. One of them was an employee he was advised not to hire, but due to his blind spot, he did, and that led to major problems within the company.
So our goal became to balance two perceptions around that original event using the Demartini Method. On one hand, we aimed to dissolve the resentment and fear linked to A.’s behavior. On the other hand, we aimed to dissolve the admiration and attachment around his grandmother, who solved the challenge for him. We were done in about one hour. We checked and saw there was no fear left in the present context of his business.
Outcome:
The next morning he sent me this message: “You would not believe me if I told you who just gave me a call.” It was A., some 23 years after that moment, while in the meantime they hadn’t known anything about each other. A. discovered my client’s company online, saw his name, and called him to ask if he could become his client!
Constantin asked me how this was even possible, and I remember telling him: “You cannot serve those you don’t love. Clients like A. couldn’t come to you as long as you feared them. By dissolving that fear, you declared you were ready to serve. Life just gave you that proof, almost instantly.” Those stories were entangled, but now, by dissolving the charge, he closed the loop, freeing himself for new levels of accomplishment.
Conclusion:
There are amazing underlying links in our present challenges. Until those links are made conscious and dissolved, they feed a pattern we don’t understand or can’t seem to break. Using the Demartini Method, we can discover such links and balance the perceptions that feed those patterns.
The client is a 36-year-old entrepreneur who became aware of a fear of being around certain potential clients and collaborators. He realized this issue was limiting his business growth and wanted to explore it further.
Action Taken:
We first identified the despised traits in these clients and found specific past experiences with the same perception. The earliest experience seemed to be from secondary school when a boy, A., repeatedly threatened to beat him and pushed him a few times. He was growing up with his grandparents, and when his grandmother saw his emotional state and found out about A., she assured her grandson she would protect him. She went to school, and from that day on, the threats stopped.
Over time, A. was reflected in his clients and collaborators, while his grandmother was reflected in several women he placed his hopes in. One of them was an employee he was advised not to hire, but due to his blind spot, he did, and that led to major problems within the company.
So our goal became to balance two perceptions around that original event using the Demartini Method. On one hand, we aimed to dissolve the resentment and fear linked to A.’s behavior. On the other hand, we aimed to dissolve the admiration and attachment around his grandmother, who solved the challenge for him. We were done in about one hour. We checked and saw there was no fear left in the present context of his business.
Outcome:
The next morning he sent me this message: “You would not believe me if I told you who just gave me a call.” It was A., some 23 years after that moment, while in the meantime they hadn’t known anything about each other. A. discovered my client’s company online, saw his name, and called him to ask if he could become his client!
Constantin asked me how this was even possible, and I remember telling him: “You cannot serve those you don’t love. Clients like A. couldn’t come to you as long as you feared them. By dissolving that fear, you declared you were ready to serve. Life just gave you that proof, almost instantly.” Those stories were entangled, but now, by dissolving the charge, he closed the loop, freeing himself for new levels of accomplishment.
Conclusion:
There are amazing underlying links in our present challenges. Until those links are made conscious and dissolved, they feed a pattern we don’t understand or can’t seem to break. Using the Demartini Method, we can discover such links and balance the perceptions that feed those patterns.
Challenge:
Dealing with Affair
Dealing with Affair
Client: Tanya and Eric. Age: 40s
Facilitated by: Lisa Dion - Therapist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Background:
Tanya and Eric have been married for 17 years and Tanya is having an affair with a much younger man.
Eric feels betrayed and Tanya feels “she had no choice”- that she was driven to be with someone else because Eric's "laziness" and "lack of motivation" were draining her.
Action Taken:
Two consultation sessions were scheduled to help Tanya and Eric resolve the dynamics that were contributing to their challenges.
The first consultation began with an introduction to the Demartini Value Determination Process to help them understand what is most important to them and to highlight the relational dynamics that occur when they don't communicate in each other's values.
After understanding each other's values, they both were able to recognize that they were expecting the other to live according to their values and not honoring each other for who they are.
The second consultation, which was 4 hours in length, involved taking Tanya and Eric through the Demartini Method to further help dissolve the resentment that they were both having towards each other. They both were able to own where they had done the very thing they were judging in the other and were very humbled to see how each other was reflecting what they were disowning with themselves.
Outcome:
Tanya and Eric developed a new appreciation for each other and how they were helping each other grow. They also understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward.
Eric also realized that he wanted out of the marriage, but did not know how to get out and this affair was a blessing in disguise.
Conclusion
Following these two consultations, additional consultations occurred to support them in collapsing the fears that were in the way of moving forward with a divorce. They both also had individual sessions.
Tanya's sessions focused on collapsing the fantasy she had of "her new partner" so that she could make a decision about whether or not that relationship was truly congruent for her.
Eric's sessions focused on helping him collapse his shame for "not going for it" in life and also discover what he would really love to dedicate his time to now that he understood his values. In the end, they did divorce but not out of resentment but deep appreciation for each other and an understanding that they both simply wanted something different.
Tanya and Eric have been married for 17 years and Tanya is having an affair with a much younger man.
Eric feels betrayed and Tanya feels “she had no choice”- that she was driven to be with someone else because Eric's "laziness" and "lack of motivation" were draining her.
Action Taken:
Two consultation sessions were scheduled to help Tanya and Eric resolve the dynamics that were contributing to their challenges.
The first consultation began with an introduction to the Demartini Value Determination Process to help them understand what is most important to them and to highlight the relational dynamics that occur when they don't communicate in each other's values.
After understanding each other's values, they both were able to recognize that they were expecting the other to live according to their values and not honoring each other for who they are.
The second consultation, which was 4 hours in length, involved taking Tanya and Eric through the Demartini Method to further help dissolve the resentment that they were both having towards each other. They both were able to own where they had done the very thing they were judging in the other and were very humbled to see how each other was reflecting what they were disowning with themselves.
Outcome:
Tanya and Eric developed a new appreciation for each other and how they were helping each other grow. They also understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward.
Eric also realized that he wanted out of the marriage, but did not know how to get out and this affair was a blessing in disguise.
Conclusion
Following these two consultations, additional consultations occurred to support them in collapsing the fears that were in the way of moving forward with a divorce. They both also had individual sessions.
Tanya's sessions focused on collapsing the fantasy she had of "her new partner" so that she could make a decision about whether or not that relationship was truly congruent for her.
Eric's sessions focused on helping him collapse his shame for "not going for it" in life and also discover what he would really love to dedicate his time to now that he understood his values. In the end, they did divorce but not out of resentment but deep appreciation for each other and an understanding that they both simply wanted something different.
Challenge:
Business Plateau
Business Plateau
Client: Sarah M.
Facilitated by: Carly Pepin - Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Business Plateau
Background:
The client was struggling to overcome a business and financial plateau. Despite having some ideas on how to move forward, she was procrastinating due to significant brain noise and mental fog, which fueled a lack of belief in what was possible and certainty in her capabilities. She also carried significant guilt from a past trauma, believing that because of this, she “shouldn’t be happy, I don’t deserve it.” This inner turmoil was causing conflicts in her relationship and leading to time away from her children, which further amplified her guilt and shame for feeling like a "bad" mother.
Action Taken:
Following this, we engaged in 12 one-on-one consultations focused on using the Demartini Method to process the past trauma where she perceived herself as responsible for a family member’s passing.
We also worked on helping her create certainty in the traits of business figures she admired, creating the certainty that she had what it took to move forward. Additionally, we used the Demartini Method to stabilize the conflicts in her relationship and helped her see the perfection of her role as a mother and wife, dissolving the guilt and shame over her perceived shortcomings and allowing her to embrace the mother she was meant to be.
We also used the Demartini Method to address her relationship with her father, who had been a failed entrepreneur. This experience helped her release a significant amount of guilt and shame related to her perceived lack of performance and shifted her fears and fantasies around failure in her business.
After the initial program, we continued with weekly sessions using the Demartini Method to address the ongoing stresses that arose as she scaled her business. Each session focused on overcoming misperceptions driving mental noise, allowing her to develop clear strategies and systems for business growth. In addition focusing on any fantasies or nightmares that came up for her so she could move forward more objectively.
Outcome:
Once she cleared the guilt and shame associated with her perceived responsibility for the family member’s death, her procrastination dissolved, and she began building and growing immediately. The reduction in household turmoil allowed her to focus on business tasks without risking her family’s well-being.
The ongoing use of the Demartini Method helped her access her own objective center, develop clear strategies and solutions, and set long-term goals. In the 6 years we have been working together this program utilizing the Demartini Method enabled her to grow her business from $8M to $58M annually, with continued expansion and a goal to sell at the 500M mark.
As she continued to dissolve subordinations to external influences, her vision expanded with each session and she continues to see strategies and solutions to move forward.
Conclusion:
This case shows the potential and versatility of the Demartini Method in removing misperceptions, guilt, shame, and pride that block our objectivity and certainty. By dissolving these barriers, the client was able to move past her roadblocks and focus on an authentic life that inspired her, ultimately achieving financial freedom for herself and her family.
Business Plateau
Background:
The client was struggling to overcome a business and financial plateau. Despite having some ideas on how to move forward, she was procrastinating due to significant brain noise and mental fog, which fueled a lack of belief in what was possible and certainty in her capabilities. She also carried significant guilt from a past trauma, believing that because of this, she “shouldn’t be happy, I don’t deserve it.” This inner turmoil was causing conflicts in her relationship and leading to time away from her children, which further amplified her guilt and shame for feeling like a "bad" mother.
Action Taken:
Following this, we engaged in 12 one-on-one consultations focused on using the Demartini Method to process the past trauma where she perceived herself as responsible for a family member’s passing.
We also worked on helping her create certainty in the traits of business figures she admired, creating the certainty that she had what it took to move forward. Additionally, we used the Demartini Method to stabilize the conflicts in her relationship and helped her see the perfection of her role as a mother and wife, dissolving the guilt and shame over her perceived shortcomings and allowing her to embrace the mother she was meant to be.
We also used the Demartini Method to address her relationship with her father, who had been a failed entrepreneur. This experience helped her release a significant amount of guilt and shame related to her perceived lack of performance and shifted her fears and fantasies around failure in her business.
After the initial program, we continued with weekly sessions using the Demartini Method to address the ongoing stresses that arose as she scaled her business. Each session focused on overcoming misperceptions driving mental noise, allowing her to develop clear strategies and systems for business growth. In addition focusing on any fantasies or nightmares that came up for her so she could move forward more objectively.
Outcome:
Once she cleared the guilt and shame associated with her perceived responsibility for the family member’s death, her procrastination dissolved, and she began building and growing immediately. The reduction in household turmoil allowed her to focus on business tasks without risking her family’s well-being.
The ongoing use of the Demartini Method helped her access her own objective center, develop clear strategies and solutions, and set long-term goals. In the 6 years we have been working together this program utilizing the Demartini Method enabled her to grow her business from $8M to $58M annually, with continued expansion and a goal to sell at the 500M mark.
As she continued to dissolve subordinations to external influences, her vision expanded with each session and she continues to see strategies and solutions to move forward.
Conclusion:
This case shows the potential and versatility of the Demartini Method in removing misperceptions, guilt, shame, and pride that block our objectivity and certainty. By dissolving these barriers, the client was able to move past her roadblocks and focus on an authentic life that inspired her, ultimately achieving financial freedom for herself and her family.
Challenge:
Infidelity, Betrayal
Infidelity, Betrayal
Client: Barbara & Brad, Age 30s
Facilitated by: Ken Pierce - Psychologist and Master Demartini Method Facilitator
Challenge:
Infidelity, Betrayal and Abandonment
Background:
Barbara and Brad had been married three years and had a one-year-old child. Barbara initiated the session when she found out Brad was having an affair with a colleague in the military where they were both employed.
Barbara was angry and ready to divorce Brad. She reported that she “felt betrayed” and perceived he was abandoning their marriage and being disloyal to her while she was home on maternity leave with their firstborn child. But Brad had been feeling abandoned and neglected for some time by Barbara and was now guilting himself about being unfaithful and disloyal to her by how he had coped with it.
Action Taken:
The initial session clarified the details from each of their perspectives and established they were still both committed to their relationship if they could resolve this current challenge. It included collecting their personal histories and significant past traumas and cumulated with an introduction to the Demartini Method and how it is used as a therapeutic approach based on a values perspective in couple communication. Before the next weekly session, both Barbara and Brad were asked to identify and forward copies of their personal highest values after completing the online tool and their life goals.
In the next session, after seeing each other’s values and life goals they were reminded of why they had got married. In subsequent consultations, Barbara realized they each had their own forms of infidelity, betrayal and abandonment. She realized her forms were perceived to be equally challenging by Brad as his were to her. When Brad realized Barbara’s focus on their pregnancy and their child was due to her value of being the first of her several siblings to have a healthy child, his awareness also shifted dramatically of her values.
Both Barbara and Brad were able to recognize they were each expecting the other to live according to their partner’s values. And they were each not honouring and respecting each other for who they are and the values they have created from their past to live their life. When they each could see they had been having different forms of affairs, Brad with his colleague and Barbara with her pregnancy and baby, they evolved a new level of awareness of themselves and each other and their similarities and differences. Their communication shifted immediately as a result. In the tenth and final consultation, both Barbara and Brad were recommitted to their future together.
Outcome:
Barbara and Brad developed a new appreciation and commitment to themselves and each other…and their baby. They understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward. And, they noted the collegial affair had been a useful, two-sided event that served them well.
Conclusion:
Barbara and Brad arrived angry, confused and laden with guilt because they perceived the other was to blame for their situation. They left realizing their partner and child were learning tools to assist each of them to grow in appreciation for themselves, each other and their new baby.
Infidelity, Betrayal and Abandonment
Background:
Barbara and Brad had been married three years and had a one-year-old child. Barbara initiated the session when she found out Brad was having an affair with a colleague in the military where they were both employed.
Barbara was angry and ready to divorce Brad. She reported that she “felt betrayed” and perceived he was abandoning their marriage and being disloyal to her while she was home on maternity leave with their firstborn child. But Brad had been feeling abandoned and neglected for some time by Barbara and was now guilting himself about being unfaithful and disloyal to her by how he had coped with it.
Action Taken:
The initial session clarified the details from each of their perspectives and established they were still both committed to their relationship if they could resolve this current challenge. It included collecting their personal histories and significant past traumas and cumulated with an introduction to the Demartini Method and how it is used as a therapeutic approach based on a values perspective in couple communication. Before the next weekly session, both Barbara and Brad were asked to identify and forward copies of their personal highest values after completing the online tool and their life goals.
In the next session, after seeing each other’s values and life goals they were reminded of why they had got married. In subsequent consultations, Barbara realized they each had their own forms of infidelity, betrayal and abandonment. She realized her forms were perceived to be equally challenging by Brad as his were to her. When Brad realized Barbara’s focus on their pregnancy and their child was due to her value of being the first of her several siblings to have a healthy child, his awareness also shifted dramatically of her values.
Both Barbara and Brad were able to recognize they were each expecting the other to live according to their partner’s values. And they were each not honouring and respecting each other for who they are and the values they have created from their past to live their life. When they each could see they had been having different forms of affairs, Brad with his colleague and Barbara with her pregnancy and baby, they evolved a new level of awareness of themselves and each other and their similarities and differences. Their communication shifted immediately as a result. In the tenth and final consultation, both Barbara and Brad were recommitted to their future together.
Outcome:
Barbara and Brad developed a new appreciation and commitment to themselves and each other…and their baby. They understood the importance of learning how to communicate in each other's values moving forward. And, they noted the collegial affair had been a useful, two-sided event that served them well.
Conclusion:
Barbara and Brad arrived angry, confused and laden with guilt because they perceived the other was to blame for their situation. They left realizing their partner and child were learning tools to assist each of them to grow in appreciation for themselves, each other and their new baby.
Lives Transformed by the Demartini Method
I feel much more confident in my coaching skills now.
This is also a huge benefit for my coaching business.
Continues to be the most powerful method and training that I have had.
Immediately applicable to my business goals.
It certainly contributes to my effectiveness in helping my clients.
My income has significantly increased.
I highly recommend it.
Helped me bring tremendous results for my clients.
Like no other modality.
Gave me an extra tool to help my clients during my consultations.
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The Originator of the Demartini Method
The Originator of the Demartini Method
Dr John Demartini is a human behavior expert, polymath, philosopher, international speaker, and
best-selling author. He has synthesized insights from over 264 disciplines to create the Demartini
Method, empowering coaches and therapists worldwide to help clients master their minds and transform
their lives.
“I love showing people how to be resourceful in their perceptions and actions. Then, no matter what
happens in their lives, there is something they can do to achieve something extraordinary from it.”
overview of the demartini method
Effectiveness and Applications Across
Effectiveness and Applications Across
Various Coaching Areas
Key Benefits
Facilitates deep, lasting change, enhances emotional resilience, and aligns personal and professional
goals with intrinsic values.
| Applications in | |
|---|---|
| Personal Transformation | |
| Emotional Resilience | |
| Value Alignment | |
| Goal Setting and Achievement | |
| Business Coaching | |
| Finance Coaching | |
| Health Coaching | |
| Family Coaching | |
| Relationship Coaching | |
| Loss Coaching | |
| Leadership Coaching | |
| Personal Development Coaching | |
| Purpose Coaching | |
| Career Guidance Coaching | |
| Professional Development and Key Insights into the Demartini Method | |
|---|---|
| Requires continuing education to maintain credentials | Yes |
| Accredited by reputable coaching organization | Yes - The Demartini Institute |
| Process to be trained in methodology | Specific training and certification through the Demartini Institute |
| Challenges of using the Demartini Method | Cognitive process that requires the client to participate in deep personal introspection |
| Cost of professional curriculum | $5,000 - $18,000 |
| Results at the end of every session | Yes |
| Case studies showing the use of the methodology | See case studies |
| Testimonials from coaches using the methodology | See testimonials |
Professional Development and Key Insights into the Demartini Method
Requires continuing education to maintain credentials
Yes
Accredited by reputable coaching organization
Process to be trained in methodology
Challenges of using the Demartini Method
Cost of professional curriculum
Results at the end of every session
Case studies showing the use of the methodology
Testimonials from coaches using the methodology
DISCLAIMER
The Demartini Method is an educational and personal development tool. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any psychological or medical conditions. The information and processes shared are for general educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental-health or medical advice. If you are experiencing acute distress or ongoing clinical concerns, please consult a licensed health-care provider.
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