Every human being has a hierarchy of values – things that are important to them in their life. Whatever we perceive as most missing becomes most important to us and therefore valuable. We think about, dream about, visualise about, talk about and spend time, energy and money on the things which are highest on our values. Our life clearly demonstrates what is most important to us at any moment in time.
Sometimes we project our values onto other people and expect them to live outside their values and inside what is most important to us. When we do this, we create a fantasy about who we believe they should be and we try to change other people to be more like us and become ungrateful for who they really are. Any time that we project our expectations on other people we will experience resistance in the way we communicate with them. As a result, some of our most challenging relationships in life are the ones that we have with the people that we love most.
This Fathers Day is the perfect time to stop and take the time to appreciate your father for who he truly is and discover what is most important to him in life. Discovering what is truly important to your father this Fathers Day will allow you to have a more fulfilling relationship with open communication and a true appreciation for who you both are in your family.
Dr John Demartini, human behavioural specialist, educator, internationally published author and sought-after authority on maximising human awareness and potential, reveals the importance of knowing your father’s values and how to master the art of communication in your relationship with him. You will be guided in how to identify what is most important to your father and then learn how to powerfully communicate what is most important to you in terms of what is most important to your father.
Give your father a real gift this Fathers Day – learn the art of communication with your father and create a fulfilling and inspiring relationship for both of you.
Dr John Demartini – human behavioural specialist, educator, internationally published author and sought-after authority on maximising human awareness and potential. www.drdemartini.com