What if you discover that there is something much more fulfilling in a relationship than just being momentarily happy?
Over the last four decades I helped thousands of people ignite a new flame in their life by focusing on the importance of personal values. I want to share with you my insights of 44 years of research and work with thousands of couples struggling to find their illusive happiness in relationships:
“In truth, there is only a balanced form of love.
Everything else is a one-sided romantic fantasy, or illusion.”
No one around you is committed to make your life fulfilling and amazing everyday. That is primarily up to you! However, you can find someone who can help you to do what fulfills your life and you, them.
A fulfilling life will include helping others, and the special one you love most.
Fulfill what they would love most, which in turn helps them to fulfill what you would love most.
One of the pillars of stable relationships is to understand each others highest values and how they complement each other.
It is essential to know and embrace your personal values and empower all 7 areas of your life before looking for a partner.
Just like you inwardly ask yourself what is in it for me, they also ask what is in it for them. If you desire to attract a great catch, it is reasonable for you to also be a great catch.
Relationship empowerment in the 7 Areas of Life
You magnetize loving mates when you are authentic and empowered in the 7 areas of life.
That is you are:
- intelligent mentally,
- achieving vocationally,
- high earning financially,
- caring familially,
- influential socially,
- well and attractive physically and
- inspired spiritually.
Empower your life and increase the probability of doing something amazing alongside someone amazing.
Dr Demartini’s relationship equation is based on opening the doorway to self-clarity and empowerment. Instead of looking for fleeting happiness in a relationship, it is more wisely to ask yourself:
- Identify your top three highest values and how can you fulfill them?
- What would you absolutely love to do in life?
- Which highest priority action steps can you take today to achieve this?
The quality of your life is based on the quality of questions you ask.
Answering these quality questions will help you to illuminate your personal values and allow you to be the greatest and most authentic version of yourself.
Value yourself and the world will value you.
When you love others for who they are, the more they will turn into who you love.
You deserve to live your dreams.
And when you meet your potential mate ask yourself:
- What are your mates top three highest values?
- How can you help them become fulfilled?
Find out what is most important to you. Then see where your partners values align with your own. This is so that you can both feel loved for who you are – not someone elses idea of who you should be.
Your relationship fulfillment will be built upon a foundation of gratitude and true balanced love. True balanced love gives you a true understanding of what really makes your relationship last.
For gratitude is the key that opens up the gateway of the heart and allows love from within to come radiating out.
Count your blessings.
Release the healing power of love and gratitude, to help you realize that you already have everything you are looking for – all it takes is a little bit of attention and communication.
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