Wisdom is Seeing Both Sides
Below are submissions from people regarding some of the benefits they experienced as a result of this perceived challenge:
They judged me
Friends supported me and told me they valued me.
I realized I didn't need to rely on my partner's affirmation to believe in myself.
My self worth increased because I acknowledged the areas that I had strengths in
People came forward to tell me that they disagreed with them which made me feel supported
I learnt not to rely on other people's opinion of me
I learnt not to allow other peoples opinion of me to influence my feelings about myself
It toughened me up which helped in other areas of my life
It taught me to grow up and stand up for myself
It helped me to change careers and I now earn a lot more than I would have it I stayed working for him
She helped me to grow as a person and learn how to face conflict