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A-Z Challenge & Benefits

Wisdom is Seeing Both Sides



Below are submissions from people regarding some of the benefits they experienced as a result of this perceived challenge:



I am fat

Makes me realize that people love me for who I am not for what I look like

I don't feel the pressure to compete with the other guys out there

Helps me to realize that beauty is not about having a perfect body, it is about the entire package, the way I dress, my vitality and my own belief in myself

Helps me to let go of the idea that I have to be physically perfect all the time

Makes me put more effort into how I dress and how I do my hair so that I make up for the area I don't want people to focus on

I don't have to deal with people treating me like a sex object which my other thinner friends have to deal with all the time

My husband doesn't try to have sex with me all the time now that I am overweight

I feel a lot less judgment from my friends now that I am perceived as also having some physical issue I am working through

People relate to me easier

I feel less arrogant and make more of an effort with people



They are fat

I realise I don't care what they look like

She is a lot less arrogant now that she has put on some weight

He seems a lot less intimidating now that he has put on some weight

I don't feel so inadequate around her like I did when she was thinner

I feel more physically attractive around her as I have a better body than she does

He is a lot less worried about what he eats which has made going out much more fun

He is much more cuddly




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